About Me...

Ever look back and realize every heartbreak, pivot, and breakthrough was shaping who you’re becoming?

That’s my story—and maybe it’s yours too.

For 25 years, I thrived in the world of achievement and strategy. I was a Director at Sun Life, an IT consultant for Canada’s top banks—a respected, ambitious woman scaling every ladder in sight. The corner office, six-figure salary, and accolades said, “Success.”

Except in love.

Behind the professional wins, I lived a story so many high-achieving women know: powerful in the boardroom, performing in relationships. Attracting the same unavailable types. Replaying the same heartbreaks. Hustling for love the way I hustled for promotions.

From Corporate Powerhouse to Love Alignment Mentor: My Journey to Doing Love Differently

That Pattern Worked—Until It Didn’t

I could out-strategize anyone at the negotiation table, but I couldn’t outwork misaligned love. The harder I tried, the more exhausted I became.

Then came the moment—the quiet, undeniable realization:

“There has to be a different way to do this.”

I dove deep into personal development, became a certified life and business coach, and started guiding women through their own transformations. For two years, I taught the mainstream dating advice—the scripts, the strategies, the “rules.”

It worked on the surface. My clients got dates. But they didn’t feel seen.

Then I Discovered Human Design—And Everything Clicked

Human Design revealed why my patterns kept repeating—and why they would keep repeating until I aligned with my true energetic blueprint. For the first time, I saw how conditioning, “good girl” programming, and unconscious beliefs shaped who I attracted and how I showed up.

This wasn’t just another dating tactic.

It was the missing piece that transformed everything.

I combined this insight with years of coaching experience and created The REAL Attraction Pyramid™—a system that helps women move beyond surface chemistry and compatibility to true conscious alignment.

Why I Do What I Do

My mission is to help high-achieving, conscious women break free from outdated dating scripts and create love by design—not by default. I guide powerful women who are done shrinking, performing, or settling—and ready to call in aligned love by becoming unapologetically themselves.

We get one precious life. Love shouldn’t be the area where you abandon your truth. You deserve a partner who meets you at your depth, matches your energy, and celebrates your wholeness.

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What qualifies me to guide women like you

  • 25+ years IT consulting for Canada’s largest banks & corporations

  • Certified Life & Business Coach

  • Human Design Coach

  • Gene Keys Guide

  • Personally mentored by many mentors including Bob Proctor

  • Creator of The REAL Attraction Pyramid™

  • Host of Love by Design™ Podcast

  • Author (iRise)

  • 5+ years coaching high-achieving women

I’m living proof that your most powerful work—and love—can emerge at any stage.